Kindness

I have seen people hate someone and pass judgment because of how they look.

Seen others having a bag full of attitude because of what others said about a person.

What is more choking is one believing they are above others and need to be treated like kings and queens of this kingdom called Earth.

Sadly, one look at someone and you have already concluded that they are just filth and nothing good can ever come from them. After all, what good comes from a street child who has to fight through the garbage to find a meal?

You are hating on some people because of what you heard. Without validation, you have hated without reason.

But before you think high and mighty about yourself let me remind you to some you are the filth you see in others and if not, your skin will soon have wrinkles, and the beauty that makes people turn their heads will fade away. At least that's the reality.

I am not telling people not to have high esteem. I advocate for that but please do not be full of yourself and ignorant. That's a good combination.

Before you think you own the world and others are just passersby,  that you need to calm down and realize everyone in this world has a purpose.

The street boy that you feel is just a stench is the one you need when you have luggage too heavy that you cannot carry. They do the heavy lifting.

The security guard that you treat with no respect and leave him to work long hours because he is a mere security guy is important. He ensures that you are safe.

The domestic manager that you believe should not eat chicken because it is not meant for house helps, she takes care of your children.

I believe it is time we stop walking like we own the world, or better than others. It is time we treat people with respect, not for anything else but because they are human.

See, no one is special than the other. Some are just blessed with privileged with better environments and opportunities. Instead of jumping to conclusions and playing deputy Jesus how about you hold someone's hands and make them a better being.

Some people are just waiting for someone to hold their hand and show them the way and you will be surprised by the transformation that will be experienced.

This year, commit that before judging someone you will get to know their story. 

Be kind to the street child, streets are their safe place.

The masks are on but I would say, smile at a stranger whenever you can. Imagine it costs zero cents

Be grateful to the security guard and tell them, 'thank you.' You will not choke.

Kindness is what pushes people to believe their worth, to believe in themselves again. Kindness is neither expensive nor taxed 

Before you judge and come up to conclusions because you feel your ways and thoughts are right, ask yourself, 'Would I want to be treated the same way I am treating others?' 

If your answer is no, change.